Strapon Harness Reviews and Recommendations - plus butt plugs and dildos to go with it
Mind Mistress gives her advice
No matter which kind of strapon harness you want, I suggest you read through the entire page, as I point out the various advantages, disadvantages and features of all types of harnesses. That way you'll be an educated buyer, and better able to choose the harness that will work best for you.
Temptress Dual Action Harness (Latex) + Dildo +Bullet
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This latex harness is suitable for men and women to use with a variety of dildos. Features :
Best Features: Latex is easily washable. Sizing: One Size Fits Most, up to 36" hips. Price: $39.99 |
The vibrating bullet gives BOTH of you extra vibrating stimulation! And for latex lovers, the smell and feel of latex is unmatched.
Woman fucking woman: The dildo sits on your pubic bone while you fuck her, so you don't feel much there, but the bullet sits right on your sweet spot, tingling both your vagina and indirectly your clitoris, while she gets the point, as it were.
Woman fucking male: Same as above, but if you're going at the backdoor of your pet, and stay there all the way in, your pet will get a nice tingle in the balls that touch the vibrating portion. Frankly, for backdoor entry, I'd suggest using a shorter anal dildo though.
Male fucking woman: if you put your penis going upward under the panties, you'll find that the dildo sits right on top of your sweet spot, the one just below the head of the penis. This is the most sensitive part of the penis, the one that becomes the clit when a foetus grows into a girl instead of a boy (cause we all start out as girls until hormones start making some of us into boys). So with every thrust, you'll be pressing that sweet spot. Then, you'll find that the vibrating bullet pouch sits right on your scrotum, gently rocking your balls to the happy vibes. Yummy. And of course, there's no performance anxiety here... your dildo will stay hard as long as you need it to, to please her as much as she wants. And when you come to rest fully inside her, and pause for a moment, your pouch will hum happy tunes into her crotch.
Male fucking male: Dude, get an anal dildo. That 6 incher is just too much. As for the harness, it'll work great, same as above, but you'll be vibrating against his hanging balls when you pause all the way in.
Tucked Transgender: If you choose to tuck your penis between your legs while you wear this, you'll find the bullet pouch cheerfully vibrating along your tucked parts while you please your partner at the front or back.
Pleasure Harness (Leather & Nylon) +Bullet
Designed for comfort and simplicity, this all-new harness easily accommodates different-sized dildos. It features adjustable nylon webbing straps and a small front pocket for holding your favorite vibrator’s remote control. Nestled in the supple, garment-quality cow leather is a complimentary one-touch bullet vibe. Regular fits up to 40“, large fits up to 60”.
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This leather harness is suitable for men and women to use with a variety of dildos. Features :
Best Features: Leather is very sturdy and durable. The bullet has no dangling wires to get in the way. Sizing: Regular fits up to 40" hips, Large up to 60". Price: $84.99 |
Mind Mistress Says:
The vibrating bullet gives BOTH of you extra vibrating stimulation! See the Harness Bullet Notes of the Temptress harness above for how to use it.
There's nothing like the look, feel and smell of leather. It feels real, solid, and sexy, in a very animalistic way that can only be found with natural materials. Leather is skin, so you get that skin to skin feeln no synthetic can match. It's more pricy than most, but it will last, and you really get what you pay for. Those nylon straps will endure a lot of abuse from enthusiastic use, and the leather will hold. Worse case scenario, you can sew the straps back onto the leather. Compared that to the latex panties of the Temptress, and you'll realize that if the latex tears, all you can do is throw out the latex harness and buy a new one. If you're going to swing from chandeliers, you want leather.
Fast and Easy to Use
You'll also notice that the nylon webbing straps have three snap releases, which means that once you've adjusted it to your size, you can snap it off in less time than it takes to say "peanut butter and jelly sandwitch", get oral sex from your grateful lover, and then snap it back on with no need for further adjustments in less time than it takes to say "is that a banana in your pocket or are you just happy to see me?". No fussing around in the dark with strap adjustments, you're ready to get back to enthusiasticall fucking your lover right away, striking the iron while it's hot!
Who Needs Viagra? Performance Anxiety Solutions
Now, say you're a male who likes using their dick to fuck their lover. That's fine, but what if you come before your lover is satisfied? No problem! Just take a moment to wipe yourself, slip on the pre-adjusted Pleasure Harness (having insterted an appropriate dildo before-hand), and keep hammering away while you recover. You can keep going for as long as it takes to satisfy your lover, and no one will ever complain about your performance. If you put a condom on the dildo, it'll make it totally sanitary, and make cleaning up a real snap. Literally.
It's black. It's leather. It's nearly indestructible. It has two pockets, and allows for interchangeable rings for a variety of dildo sizes. What more could you want?
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New Cummers Strap-On Kit
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Okay, so now you have a harness, you need some dildos to fit in it. Here's what NOT to get for a strapon harness!
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Juli Ashton Anal Beginner :Our most popular butt plug kitA nice selection of butt plugs, in small, medium, and large, plus a 7 inch vibrator. These will NOT fit in a strapon harness, and they are NOT for getting fucked. The cone shape is made so it will go into your ass easily, but the slim part near the base makes it so it will stay inside you and not come out as easily. So what is a butt plug good for, if not fucking? It's good for getting used to having something inside your ass. It's good for constant stimulation, either while masturbating, or for walking around without anyone knowing. It's good for teaching you to relax your ass in preparation for anal sex, and stretch it a bit so it doesn't hurt and you can enjoy it more. The point of this selection of butt plugs is that you can start with the small one, wearing it a while, and work up to the bigger ones, in preparation for anal sex, or just fucking yourself with an anal dildo. Price: $34.99 |
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Tantus Silicone SilkNow unlike standard butt plugs, these are made of SILICONE. That's top quality for toys, because silicone can be completely disinfected, with soap or with boiling. Other rubbers are porous, and cannot ever be shared with partners, even after washing. Why do I recommend these ? Because I own them and use them. Sure, you can get fancy ridges and all that, but really, when you're fucking somewhere that is tight and sensitive, such as the ass or a tight vagina, you want something smooth that will go in and out as easily as possible. Plus, they're purple! More expensive, as silicone always is, they come in three sizes. Get all three so you can train up to handle any penis size you might run into! Or maybe start with just small and medium, and get the large when you're girly enough to handle it! The nice flat ridge at the bottom makes them hold well inside a strapon harness. Any dildo you want to use in a harness has to have that kind of bottom, or it will slip out. 0.8" x 4.4" - Small : $25.30 1.1" x 5.25" - Medium : $31.70 1.5" x 6.9" - Large : $38.70 |
These are just some examples from the Girls R Us catalog of toys. You don't have to buy them there, this is just an explanation of what features you may want in sex toys, and what the advantages and disadvantages are.
On the other hand, Mistress Alice takes care of GRU, so Mistress prefers you buy from Her friend, if you find what you want right there.....
