Dear Abby Mistress 4 : I want my wife to be turned on when I dress as a woman. Can you help?
- kylie: hello
- kylie: does the hypnosis truly work
- mind_mistress: Hello. Yes it does :)
- kylie: wow i have been browsing around your page for a bit
- kylie: it is all really interesting
- mind_mistress: your colors are really hard to read
- mind_mistress: thanks
- kylie: sorry about that
- kylie: that was from earlier
- kylie: so could you hypnotize someone without them knowing it
- mind_mistress: possible
- kylie: I only ask because i am interested in seeing if you could hypnotize my fiance into becoming more domme
- mind_mistress: Does she want to be?
- kylie: she does but she lacks the confidence
- mind_mistress: If she's willing, I can do it
- mind_mistress: I even have a CD for it... CD15 Three Icons
- mind_mistress: I'd suggest CD16, CD3 and then CD15 to train her
- kylie: i looked at it but she isnt interested in listening to CD's says she doesnt have the time for it
- mind_mistress: Does she want to do sessions?
- kylie: i dont know
- kylie: she is at work right now
- kylie: i am home doing housework
- mind_mistress: ok
- mind_mistress: Unless she's willing, there isn't much I can do
- kylie: i completely understand
- mind_mistress: I have a session... we'll talk later after you've talked with her
- kylie: i will talk to her but i dont think she will go for it
- mind_mistress: Then find a different fiancée
- kylie: lol
- mind_mistress: honestly, you'll save yourself much grief that way
- mind_mistress: trying to change people who don't want to change is a waste of time
- kylie: well we have a son together and what not
- mind_mistress: ah
- mind_mistress: shoulda thought of that before
- kylie: i found recently out recently that i am into CD's, TV and TS and i wasnt before but
- mind_mistress: Talk with her. That's the best I can recommend
- kylie: i Have
- kylie: we have discussed it and done a little roleplaying but
- kylie: would you like to see a picture of me dressed up
- mind_mistress: Ok
- mind_mistress: you look good :)
- kylie: ty
- mind_mistress: Okay, what does SHE want?
- kylie: she wants just a normal sex life
- kylie: average and everyday
- mind_mistress: won't happen
- mind_mistress: What else does she want?
- kylie: she likes the idea of having multiple partners
- kylie: but i aint sure about that
- kylie: as in threesomes with other men
- kylie: but what she wants more than anything is my to be more passionate in the bedroom
- mind_mistress: Good :)
- kylie: but i kinda lost all interest in sex
- mind_mistress: The point is...
- mind_mistress: you can't convince to do someone to do what you want based on what you want
- kylie: i know
- mind_mistress: Only you care about what you want
- mind_mistress: she cares about what SHE wants
- mind_mistress: So you have to motivate her to do what you want... with it being a way for her to get what SHE wants
- kylie: how do i do that
- mind_mistress: People are only motivated by what they want
- mind_mistress: so find a way for her to get what she wants...
- mind_mistress: by doing what you want
- kylie: ok
- kylie: well what i want is her to sissify me completely
- mind_mistress: Think of what she wants
- kylie: i try to but i just cant get aroused anymore
- mind_mistress: not normal sex. You can't
- mind_mistress: Think of the other things she wants
- mind_mistress: passion in sex
- kylie: yeah
- kylie: but like i said i cant get aroused or feel passion anymore
- mind_mistress: and if you're dressed?
- kylie: i love her but im not in love
- kylie: when im dressed i can
- kylie: but then she cant
- mind_mistress: ah
- mind_mistress: Well then, you have a few choices
- mind_mistress: leave her
- mind_mistress: stay and both be frustrated
- kylie: lol
- mind_mistress: Or change
- mind_mistress: or each take lovers on the side
- kylie: im trying to change but it is hard
- mind_mistress: In my experience, transgenderism doesn't go away no matter what is done
- mind_mistress: so it's up to her to choose
- kylie: lol
- mind_mistress: to change, which I can do for her
- mind_mistress: The options are pretty simple.
- kylie: but there agian she has to be willing right
- mind_mistress: yup
- mind_mistress: What are the options?
- kylie: well i wont leave her
- kylie: regardless of what happens
- mind_mistress: okay
- mind_mistress: I didn't ask what you'd do.
- mind_mistress: Just what the options are
- kylie: but i can see if she will talk with you
- mind_mistress: sure
- mind_mistress: Tell me what the options are. I want to hear them from you
- kylie: options are that i find something to put passion back into our sex life
- kylie: or we each take a lover on the side
- kylie: or she or I change
- mind_mistress: yes
- mind_mistress: The choice isn't entirely yours
- mind_mistress: so it's important to present to her the options
- kylie: i understand
- mind_mistress: Transgenderism doesn't go away. At most, it's repressed
- mind_mistress: and without it, you have no passion in bed
- kylie: i didnt have this problem til a few months ago however
- mind_mistress: On the other hand, almost everyone is bisexual to some degree, so it's easier to change her to open up to that
- mind_mistress: How did it come out?
- kylie: i read some stories at fictionmania.com
- kylie: and started getting really turned on by what i read
- mind_mistress: and you hadn't had any such fantasies or crossdressing before?
- kylie: no
- mind_mistress: and why did you go to fictionmania?
- kylie: a friend of mine sent me an email link to it and so i checked it out
- kylie: she is a shemale but we are still good friends and have been since HS
- kylie: but I had no interest in crossdressing or being a sissy or anything of the sort
- mind_mistress: and nothing else turns you on now?
- kylie: not to much but then i have been around the block a couple of times
- kylie: ive done most things in the vanilla lifestyle
- mind_mistress: how old are you?
- kylie: its the alternative lifestyle that turns me on
- kylie: 24
- mind_mistress: and who are you attracted to?
- mind_mistress: when you're a girl
- kylie: im attracted to both men and women in femme
- mind_mistress: :)
- kylie: i know it sounds like im bragging but during my stint in the service i was with 70 some women
- mind_mistress: :)
- kylie: i had many one night stands and what not
- mind_mistress: No men yet?
- kylie: no no men
- mind_mistress: Okay, here's the deal...
- mind_mistress: you've changed...
- mind_mistress: you didn't plan it, and you didn't do it on purpose
- mind_mistress: but it happened anyway
- mind_mistress: Either she follows you, or she doesn't
- mind_mistress: It's her choice
- kylie: ok
- mind_mistress: you can't force her, and shouldn't
- mind_mistress: If she wants to follow, I can help.
- kylie: i know
- mind_mistress: If she doesn't... well, you can guess what will happen
- kylie: yeah i know
- kylie: what will happen
- mind_mistress: What's that ? :)
- kylie: lots and lots of pent up frustration
- mind_mistress: yup
- mind_mistress: which is either endured...
- mind_mistress: or leads to a breakup
- mind_mistress: both are bad for the kids
- kylie: yep
- mind_mistress: Frustrated parents don't make a happy household
- kylie: how much does a session run
- mind_mistress: I bet a happy family is one of her wants too
- mind_mistress: Sessions are 60 online, 80 by phone
- mind_mistress: as this is therapy
- mind_mistress: Let's review what she wants. What does she want?
- kylie: she wants passion in the bedroom
- kylie: she wants multiple partners in the bedroom at times
- kylie: and and she definately wants a happy family
- mind_mistress: and a normal sex life
- kylie: and a mormal sex life
- mind_mistress: Okay, she won't get everything she wants
- kylie: normal
- mind_mistress: No one does
- mind_mistress: But she can get 3 out of 4. Not so bad.
- kylie: lol
- mind_mistress: :)
- kylie: lol i need to run to the store soon and get some more cigerettes
- kylie: anyways you think you can help
- mind_mistress: I can.
- mind_mistress: But the magic only works with consent
- mind_mistress: What's your girl name?
- kylie: Kylie
- mind_mistress: Cute :)
- kylie: ty
- mind_mistress: you should get another yahoo profile with that name in it
- kylie: i have thought about it
- mind_mistress: Can I use this conversation on the site? I keep getting the same question you asked today.
- kylie: Sure
- mind_mistress: I'd put it in Dear Abby Mistress.
- mind_mistress: Thanks :)
- kylie: np
- mind_mistress: Okay, you can go shop... talk to her... let me know :)
- kylie: I loved the religious conversation with ashley by the way
- mind_mistress: religious?
- kylie: It goes against everything in my religious background
- Ash(11:41 AM) : And, I am very glad I picked the right Genie
- Mind_Mistress(11:41 AM) : Thou shalt not be hypnotized into believing you're a girl?
- Mind_Mistress(11:42 AM) : I don't recall any such passage...
- Ash(11:42 AM) : Well, no.. but I always saw wanting to be a girl very much like homosexuality
- Ash(11:42 AM) : And the bible, at least in the Southern Baptist tradition, is very much against that.
- Mind_Mistress(11:42 AM) : The only thought crime I know of is coveting another's wife... and that isn't likely in our case
- Ash(11:43 AM) : :) No, I don't even have a girl friend, so that doesn't have a chance at all of happening.
- Mind_Mistress(11:43 AM) : However, it's not against the religion if you're a girl
- kylie: and what not
- mind_mistress: heh heh
- mind_mistress: ok :)
- kylie: lol
- mind_mistress: I forget some of the clever things I say ;)
- kylie: lol dont we all
- mind_mistress: Look, I want you to be happy
- mind_mistress: I want her to be happy
- mind_mistress: I'll do my best to make that happen
- kylie: so do you get a lot of people interested in the sissification
- kylie: fantasies
- mind_mistress: Umm... it's my specialty...
- mind_mistress: and therapy is usually related to that in some way... like your request for your partner
- mind_mistress: Getting the woman interested in it is a common request
- mind_mistress: few women agree to it, but it works well when they do :)
- kylie: it feels weird telling you all this but
- kylie: it did help alot
- mind_mistress: Well, if it helped to express it...
- mind_mistress: I'm glad for that much
- mind_mistress: :)
- kylie: it means that I aint the only one with this problem
- mind_mistress: not in the least
- kylie: well i tell you if i was single i would definately want to try the hypnosis thing
- mind_mistress: It's extremely common with transgenders. Many get married
- kylie: like you did with adam
- mind_mistress: It's just unusual to get this happening at your age without anything prior
- mind_mistress: I wonder if there aren't things you're not remembering
- kylie: what causes it
- mind_mistress: because it seems too sudden
- mind_mistress: I mean, my site might have an influence...
- mind_mistress: but a story by itself...
- mind_mistress: without anything there beforehand
- mind_mistress: wouldn't have such an effect on most people
- kylie: it was ust the story got me aroused like never before
- kylie: and so i kept going back to it
- mind_mistress: There had to be something there you weren't aware of
- kylie: to the site and reading other stories and what not
- mind_mistress: Well, you do make a cute girl, and you're young, so that makes it easier :)
- kylie: i have always liked the feel of pantyhose on a girl
- kylie: maybe thats something i dont know
- mind_mistress: Ever been jealous of girls?
- kylie: a couple of times
- mind_mistress: before reading the story?
- kylie: yeah
- mind_mistress: what were you jealous of?
- kylie: it seemed they got everything they wanted just cause they had breast
- mind_mistress: how young do you remember feeling that way?
- kylie: 15, 16 maybe
- mind_mistress: ok
- kylie: but i never had the urge to be one before i dont think
- mind_mistress: What was it in the story that turned you on the most?
- kylie: well the first was the forced feminization agianst his will
- kylie: but as the story progressed it was the clothing that she wore
- kylie: and then the sexual parts of it
- mind_mistress: had you had any other fantasies of being dominated or controlled before that?
- kylie: yes
- kylie: all the time
- mind_mistress: What kind?
- kylie: of a women taking complete control and making me her sex toy
- mind_mistress: :)
- kylie: now its more of a woman taking complete control of me and making me her slut and whore to be used by both men and women alike
- mind_mistress: do you ever have dominant fantasies?
- mind_mistress: do you ever have dominant fantasies?
- kylie: sorry got booted
- kylie: but no I have never had any fantasies about being dominant
- kylie: did i lose you
- mind_mistress: Okay
- mind_mistress: No. But I have to go
- mind_mistress: We'll talk another time
- kylie: ok well will do
- mind_mistress: you have talking to do with your partner :)
- kylie: it was a pleasure to speak with you
- kylie: and look forward to it agian
- mind_mistress: Good night :)
- mind_mistress: likewise
- kylie: night madame moiselle
- kylie: did i spell that right
- mind_mistress: mademoiselle
- kylie: lol
Choices choices...
Mind Mistress
